REAL Women REAL Love: Dating Advice for Women by Amy Waterman review. There’s dating advice EVERYWHERE. On TV. In magazines. Online. Weighing down the shelves at the bookstore.As a dating & relationships expert for the past decade, I’ve had to ask myself some difficult questions. Such as…Wouldn’t you think - with so much good advice out there - NO ONE would have problems with relationships anymore?Surely there’s some reason that being a virtual expert in the science of attracting men doesn't do you any good when it comes to actually attracting one?Those are the kinds of questions that have worried away at the back of my mind for years, because they haven't seemed to have any answer.It took me most of the past ten years to figure it out, but I’d put good money that there’s SOMETHING we’ve all been missing.
Get a cup of coffee – okay, a bottle of water will do, you healthy thing - and sit down with me.For less than the time it would take you to go on a first date, I’m going to lead you on a brief journey of discovery. If you stick with me, you will discover:Why you’re wrong to think that being single sucks and you’ll never find anyone no matter what you do.Why the reason for your uncoupled status has less to do with fate/bad luck & MORE to do with something you do every day – maybe even every MINUTE.The secret technique men use to make you fall at their feet – and how you can steal it from them.Ever think it’s a cruel joke of the universe that the ONE THING you want more than anything else in the world – someone to love you with all his heart until the end of time – isn’t in your hands?
You can get a triple venti soy no-foam latte but you can’t get Mr. Perfect on a plate?- The power to find out who you are. - The power to stand on your own two feet and feel confidence radiating from your pores. - The power to do anything and everything YOU want to do.Sure, at times you might feel lonely or think how nice it would be to have someone to do something with or wonder if you’ll ever find someone who treats you the way you deserve.Just think about what your grandmother or great-grandmother would have experienced if she were a single woman at your age living your lifestyle. Think she would have had it easy? Do you think she could have enjoyed the freedoms you enjoy?Being a single woman of a certain age no longer makes you part of a suspect minority.
You’re actually in the MAJORITY.“Single Americans make up more than half of the adult population for the FIRST time since the government began compiling such statistics in 1976.”For the first time in history, you can expect that more than half the people you meet will be single.The forces of commerce (e.g., companies and businesses) have cottoned on to the fact that singles make up a HUGE potential market, so opportunities targeted to those single-and-searching souls proliferate by the day. (Tinder, anyone?)Think of it as there being a HUGE MACHINE out there, crunching data and calculating probabilities and focusing its entire intent on bringing YOU exactly what you want.Why else would there be rows of dating books in your local bookshop or library? Endless talk shows featuring love doctors? Dating tips on the cover of every single glossy woman’s magazine?And let’s not forget the internet.
You’d get CRUSHED under the weight of Google’s search results for “dating advice.”If I could magically see you bookshelf or e-reader right now, I bet I'd find at least one title on attracting, romancing or understanding men.We women can’t get enough of dating advice. The more dating advice you read, the more you want to read. You keep reading and reading and reading and …- We’re afraid that we won’t meet someone. - We’re afraid that what we know about men isn’t enough. - We’re afraid that we’re doing something wrong and the only thing that can stop us is that list of “20 Mistakes Smart Women Make in Love” advertised in next month’s Cosmopolitan.
Do you feel confident that you’ll meet the perfect man at the perfect time for both of you, fall in love, get married and live happily ever after?Or do you worry that you are the one person in the universe - maybe the ONLY - who’s not going to meet her match and end up dying alone with too many cats?We worry we won’t meet someone we like enough to fall in love with, who also likes us enough to fall in love.We worry that EVEN IF we meet that guy and we both. Read More detail...